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Everyone has one's learning process and CAN learn. But sometimes we forget, we don't have to bother other people in
learning this.
Expressing your sympathy is right, but nevertheless everyone should make their own choices. Decision making is always one's own responsibility. If you bother other, you won't help yourself and the
other.
First consider your thoughts and feelings and try to search for solutions in a constructive way, before confronting other! We can help each other in difficulties, but take your own responsibility and find
out that complaining whole day won't make you any happier! And the other!
How can you handle this situation?
*- Try to recognize when somebody is only talking about oneself.
*- If so, change the
conversation or be honest and tell the other that it is their own responsibility!
*- You don't have to search a solution for the other, often listening will do.
*- Don't interfere the process of this
person, he or she has the right to experience this oneself.
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